Circle of Love

Heard about the circle of love?
Jay says “often we give love to certain people and that love comes back to us even if not through the same person. Amazing right?
People come in our life for 3 things ie: A season, A reason and A lifetime!
When we understand which one it is we are able to reciprocate accordingly!
People who come for a season has an end phase, has an end point though it’s exciting, it’s amazing to be with them. But It has to move on.
The one with reason don’t care when you are alone, they just care when they are alone!
Some people come into your life for reason. They help you learn, they help you grow, they help support you through the most difficult times.
Never forget the person who was there for you when no one else was, when they had every reason to be not there. When they could have used any excuse to be not there in your life, they chose to be right there next to you. And then you have friends who are there with you for a lifetime, they were hidden maybe, maybe not recognised, but stood there by your side – these were the people you often forgot, these were the people you often missed, these were the people who were busy loving you even when you are giving nothing to them.
Ask yourself who in your life has played this role?
Who has been in your life for a lifetime?
How can you show them that they matter to you?
Often we feel we care more about people, than care for us. We are just looking at the wrong person.”

Peace ๐Ÿ™

Jay shetty

Life lessons at 23๐Ÿ’Ÿ

Life is like a rollercoaster ride, there is soooo manyyy up’s and down’s. Good thing is that each one of us learn different things. These things or lessons may varry from person to person.

So here’s a list of things that I have learned before turning 23.
So Let’s start :

1)Cut the toxic people out. like do you have any valid reason to keep them?
2)Half-hearted apologies are worse than no apology. Mean it please!
3)You grieve differently than others, and it’s fine! Trust me! Just because your way of expressing is different doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect you.
4) Happiness is a mood, not a destination! Itโ€™s exhausting to look for that one day when everything will be perfect โ€“ because that day does not exist.
5)Cook healthy meals. Exercise. Go for a walk. Meditate. Your body wonโ€™t be young forever, so take care of it.
6) Family matters. Appreciate them, love them, Cherish them. They are the ones who keep up with you every day, and the ones who keep you going, specially your parents!
7) Read more. I know itโ€™s hard to stay away from social media,But have some healthy distractions too.
8) push out of your comfort zones. No matter what your personality type is, no matter who you are โ€“ do something that scares you. Do something youโ€™ve never done before. Try at least!
9) The most simple one yet hard. STOP apologising for who you are! Stop pleasing them. You don’t need to explain everything to them.
10) everyone is going to die one day! Life is short, don’t hold grudges.
11) insecure about those extra 5 kgs? Don’t be. Who cares?
12)Step away from the white noise and the constant crowds and really spend some time alone with your thoughts.
13) value your old friends! Old is gold ? Yes it is!
14) Let yourself be consumed by your passions. They will be there for you when you’re so overcome with emotion you can barely breathe.
15) You are breathing. You are still alive inspite of all that you a going through. Be thankful and pray everyday.

๐Ÿ™ Peace๐Ÿ’Ÿ

Are you listening?

I wonder sometimes, will you ever ‘listen’ to me?

They say listening is an art, and I wish I could teach you.

I wish I could teach you to ask me, how am I!

I wish I could teach you that, showing concern is important!

I wish I could teach you that the most basic and the powerful way to connect to another person is to ‘listen’.

When you can’t communicate or heal someone, what are you even doing?

Why do you even exist in their life?

Your one simple question ‘how are you’ or those sweet gestures can turn their depressed life into an happy one!

Communicate to get each word out of their mouth!

Be the kind of friend who knows everything from what they ate to where they are now!

That is the friend he/she wants!

And when there are no words,

be with them to witness the sunrise and the sunset!


A new start

Lately I am so disturbed,
About every transitions
in my life,
About how I moved
from one city to
About how my heart
and my mind both
are confused by seeing
new faces and phases,
About leaving
friends behind,
About walking ahead
towards a new chapter,
About how these faces
verily with whom you
have blood relations, dont understand you.
About how I feel within,
About how I suffer with
my vertigo and illness
About being depressed,
feeling pathetic and
everything in life.

But hold! I don’t need
any counseling
from anyone.
Sometimes you just need
a new start,
a new beginning,
a clean state.
Something’s are meant
to happen and some not!
Its me who need to
Embrace change ,
Embrace life.
Maybe my growth is slow,
it’s not like others.
It’s OK if someday
i feel everything all at once
and other days,
I feel nothing at all.
I hope one day,
yes at least one day
we all understand that it’s beautiful to fall in love
with being alive.

โ€ŽููŽุฅูู†ูŽู‘ ู…ูŽุนูŽ ุงู„ู’ุนูุณู’ุฑู ูŠูุณู’ุฑู‹ุง
Fa Inna ma’al โ€˜usri yusra
(Verily, with hardship comes ease) Quran [94:6]

So here I am, accepting the new me wholeheartedly.
For now, I am in another world.
Peace !

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